Marriage is not a simple decision. Take a little bit of time to decide whom you are going to marry, with whom you are going to spend your whole life so take a right and better decision. we all have heard a idiom “precaution is better than cure” so ask these 12 questions to yourself before moving forward to your relationship or deciding to marry someone.
1. Ask yourself are you happy in this relationship?
If you have made a mind that you are going to marry someone so please think ones more as being unhappy at home is quite better than being unhappy with your partner. Because at home finally everything will be alright but if you are not happy in your relation it will pinch you in your whole life. So don’t hope that marrying someone will change your life but sometimes it can make your life hell.
2. What is your senses telling you?
Each and everything we are doing have intuition for that task. So listen to your feelings, listen to yourself Because feelings gives you indications .
3. Are you still the same person which you were before the relationship?
Being in love does not mean that you have to change yourself according to your partner ideas whom you are be that one at any level.
4. Is your better or worse making your partner better or worse?
It means is your partner encouraging you to put your best foot forward or your worse situation is effecting your
partner or what your partner is actually feeling when you are not giving your best.
5. When you are enjoying most having fun together or have fun apart?
Actually if you are having fun together then it is a problem because co-dependency is not cute at all.
6. Is relationship is healthy or balanced?
What you feel are you both same in terms of sacrifice, compromise, love, care and support or a single one is doing effort and other one is sitting having its hand crossed.
7. Do we really accept one another?
If you are accepting your partner as whom he/she is as it is wrong if you want to change things in your partner. Everyone wants that his/her partner should be unique, different but if you accept as he/she is then it is good.
8. Recognize yourself before recognizing your partner?
If you know yourself then only you are able to decide that your partner is a good match for you.
9. Are you feeling comfortable or feeling trapped?
What are your feelings saying do you want to stay majority of time in your relationship or always try to find a way to go out from all this. If you are spending time with your partner then what is the reason behind it that you have invested a lot of time in it or you are really interested in your partner.
10. Ask yourself why are you in this relationship?
Is it because you respect, love and trust your partner or you are scared to live your life alone or you are worried to leave .
11. Do you really trust your partner?
Trust is a most important thing in a relationship as without trust it never exists. Immediate answer is quite difficult so try to answer it how and why you can begin to build or rebuild your trust in your partner.
12. Are you feeling attracted to your partner?
Physical attraction is a most important thing in a relationship. If you are not feeling attracted to your partner afterwards also you are forcing yourself to be in relationship then it is unfair to your partner as you cannot be able to keep your partner happy.